poverty of speech, social withdrawal, loss of volition….) Eh, the SBS awards are a joke but I hope he gets daesang at the Baeksang awards show next year! Is he suffering from severe PTSD or schizophrenia or whatever? Jo In Sung blew me away in the ending scene. They have gone trough their life so much with difficulty, even made HS sold her mom and her mom had affair with pres. Are you kidding?! He claims to be sleepy and doesn’t seem too bothered by the fact that he isn’t falling asleep in his bathtub. I think i've fallen in love with Jo In Sung's acting! Jae-yeol’s knees buckles under him, still trying to get to Kang-woo just as the ambulance arrives. WOW! Hats off to all Beanies for articulating how privileged we are before such talents. After having experienced it they think that it would be too much for Hae Soo to handle and will only cause her great suffering. I totally agree with everyone, JIS & GHJ outdid themselves in this particular episode, especially JIS. This situation is pretty much that in a sense, so I'm pretty sure she won't be breaking up with JY. His wife was diagnosed with schizophrenia at 35, and its very hard on the kids. Because we couldn’t rely on Jae-yeol’s dulled expressions (because of the effects of his medication) to clue us in, we needed other clues to see a glimpse of Jae-yeol’s reactions. After Jae-yeol takes his meds, he tells the nurse that he thinks he is schizophrenic. They had the ambulance and shots ready even before he got into an accident. I really loved the exchange between Jaeyeol and Haesoo at the end of the episode. It sets back his treatment and progress but it must be hard for her to stay away. :D. What are your guys’ thoughts on Writer Noh’s attempt at psychology? Of course, the depiction of mental illness was far from perfect but it was a good attempt for a show that has a love story to tell on top of a psychological drama. Sinopsis Drama Korea It’s Ok, This is Love Jang Jae-Yeol merupakan seorang penulis sebuah karangan novel yang sangat populer di kalangan wanita dan terkenal sekali sehingga hasil karya nya terjual habis di pasaran. But they know that he’s checking in with them on Hae-soo’s behalf, and tells him to relay that they can’t take care of Jae-yeol in addition to Hae-soo’s handicapped father. I’m curious to know what Jae Yeol was thinking there. Hae-soo tells Jae-yeol reassuringly that everything will come to pass. Even I don't have the confidence. Ep 13 Ep 14 Ep 15 Ep 16. He deserves it! He begs her to let him out because he "doesn't feel like me anymore." Thanks Noh jak-ga.". Get a box of tissues at the ready before you watch this episode, because things have to get worse before they can get better. "In the end, I love this show for cerebral more than emotional reasons. I wanted to see the reaction to JIS/GHJ's performances. *clap clap* These types of dramas are certainly gems and hard to come by. “Do you have any idea what it’s like to live with someone with an illness? Um...I'm not sure if you're just referring to watching BBT for comedy but all the physics on BBT is factually correct (and whatever they write on the white board). She rejoins Jae-yeol on the bed afterward, and he reminds her of the night they slept together—how she’d tell him why she was crying then, that she’d believe he loves her if he still does after hearing why, and lastly, that she’d tell him that she loves him back. The only person who can differentiate his delusions from reality is himself. So I don't hate the sister. This, I think is more than a psychological drama, it is lovestory at its finest. And I hope his mother and brother end up being included in the process because the whole family is in dire need of treatment and maybe they can help to heal each other. Please enter your username or email address. Hae-soo receives a sketch of herself from Hwan-hee, the teenager who used to draw genitalia. Here is a man who is good-looking, debonair, intelligent, successful, sure of himself and the world, reduced to a shadow of the man he's known himself to be, by a figment of his imagination, that was produced to save his mom, from a guilt that she didn't quite deserve! Hae-soo will face much worse if Mom finds out that she and Jae-yeol haven’t ended things for good. It didn’t surprise her in the least, and she found herself hoping that he wouldn’t make it. Sinopsis Drama Korea It’s Ok, This is Love Jang Jae-Yeol merupakan seorang penulis sebuah karangan novel yang sangat populer di kalangan wanita dan terkenal sekali sehingga hasil karya nya terjual habis di pasaran. Wow! it was a very good attempt having a different/very interesting story for a case of psychology topic a.k.a schizophrenic kdrama... But Jae-yeol denies it, then hangs up to pick up Kang-woo’s incoming call, demanding to know where he is right now. It was wonderful, because it come out of nowhere either. It's Okay, That's Love Jang Jae Yul (Jo In Sung) adalah sebuah misteri penulis dan radio DJ. In the end, I love this show for cerebral more than emotional reasons. But no sooner does he gets those words out that he’s forced to swerve his car in order to avoid the oncoming cars. Plus she could have left him just as soon as he gets warded but she came to see him. I agree with your professor, I think it's dangerous for people to assume that people with mental disorders will look and behave exactly like a textbook definition since it's more of a spectrum that people fall into. (I don't think it was wise of her to sneak in to see Jae-yeol and she and her colleague should be suspended because it was totally, totally unprofessional. In some cases. Especially since she's all he currently has to hold onto. Believing that your father is mute while thinking he’s mentally fine… that’s a mistake on my part. I really like this series too. Kang-woo tears his eyes away from his mother being abused by her husband once again, and lies that he’s on his way home. Love the mains- especially Jo In Sung and Gong Hyo-jin. First time commenting on here but this beauty of this show has compelled me to comment. HS earned our annoyance in earlier eps, until she shows that she is the kind of girl who would stand by her man come hell or hi water. Gong hyo Jin definitely brought on an onslaught of tears and relatability. However too many tears, are never a bad thing when you have such an amazing performance to cry over. Now I have fresh reasons to cry TT.TT He actually made my chest hurt in this episode. Audio clip: Adobe Flash Player (version 9 or above) is required to play this audio clip. She replies that it’ll get better soon. The true villain lies within each character's own mental health. He longs to be back out in the world with the people he dearly loves, and yet can’t return until he’s no longer a risk to himself and to them. (2) Functioning in school, work, interpersonal relations, or self-care is markedly below the level achieved prior to the onset of symptoms. If the writer kills off Jae Yeol, what would be the point of this drama? Download the latest version here. Of course this is drama land and it is a rom-com, so we will see. It's Alright, This is Love EP 1 Eng Sub - Jae Yeol is a best-selling author known for his thrillers. I hate feeling this way. So Sunbae Jo does a bit of reality testing with Jae-yeol, telling him that this is a hospital and that one needs permission to be here. Sunbae Jo isn’t going to sugarcoat it: “You only know of your own pain, but don’t care for other people’s pain. I cut this show some slack for the medical/psych procedures that they depicted because I really, really want to enjoy this drama but I just have to comment that I have never experienced or never have seen a patient receiving electroconvulsive therapy with a neck injury. I can fully understand why HS's family opposed HS-JY relationship. I've always thought many kdramas, entertaining as they are, just lack that touch of subtlety and thespianism in comparison to Japanese or HK ones. I went from off-and-on tears through most of it, to full-on baby bawling from the scene where Hae Soo's mother came in to the room where her father is, and he's crying having overheard their whole conversation (thus proving that he's not just an empty shell, as her mother had insisted to her). It's Okay, That's Love season 1 episode 14 Jang Jae-yul is a famous mystery novelist and popular radio DJ who suffers from OCD. Few more thoughts. We have HS's mom taking care of her husband with his physical (and probably mental) limitations, we have the couple with the mentally ill wife, and we have Kwang Soo's character, trying to deal with his limitations and have a love life (and HS's for that matter). I cannot resent the sister just because she brought up all old baggages just to get Haesoo see her point. That's just not cool. Nonton Drama Korea It’s Okay, That’s Love Episode 15 Subtitle Indonesia. I would understand if they transfer him into the mental ward AFTER the accident and tests. She herself must have felt so insecure and unsure of what to do, that she needed to see his face and feel his presence just for a while to confirm her feelings and her resolutions. Jae-yeol flashes back to when he saw Mama Ok-ja’s reflection in the mirror throwing the lit paper behind her. So I'll just add a couple of very minor comments: it was a joy seeing again the cute young man who used to draw private parts only. Jae-yeol swerves around, letting the car crash into his. Being here, i feel so small...". PTSD makes more sense and it would justify his looking back at the years of trauma and abuse, and confronting his fears and mother. This is a very common reason for some people to go off psychotropic drugs. However after HS leaves, we see the first shot of him alone in the room with Kang Woo. Don't forget to watch the other update series. Hae-soo cries in Jae-yeol’s embrace, and he tells her “I love you.” Now Hae-soo repeats them back to him: “I love you a lot.” He tells her he loves her again, comforting her. However, I have a beef with writer when therapists diagnose Jae-Yeol with schizophrenia and put him in mental ward based only on few observations, no tests, no real sessions. Also what do you guys think about the scene where after Jae Yeol watched the CCTV footage of his episodes and seeing how worried and how much Hae Soo cried because of him, Jae Yeol was in his room and thought back to Hae Soo’s many pessimistic statements about love when it came to Hye Jin and Yoon Cheol. (a) Delusions Though in this episode I was a bit infuriated at Haesoo's mom and sis, feeling they were a bit overreacting (what's with the face slaps!! Putting that aside, I wouldn't want my sis to marry a schizophrenic eithe. It's Alright, This is Love EP 1 Eng Sub - Jae Yeol is a best-selling author known for his thrillers. His portrayal of his self inflicted illness was appropriately quiet but emotional. He's not amazing but he's definitely shown potential for future projects. And maybe he's worried about his creativity but the fact is all of that creativity has been going into the hallucination that is Kang-woo since his stabbing by Jae-bum. So yeah, all in all, she is not to blame here. }; He’s also shown the night of the car accident he believed Kang-woo suffered injuries from. and lastly as they say text book and case to case of real life situation is really different... It also just shows the affect that the stigma towards mental illness has on the people who actually need help. They portrayed the pain of their characters so well; it’s unbelievable. Jae-yeol keeps his eyes trained on her as she reads aloud from the poetry book he’s reading: “When the wind blows, let it blow through/When loneliness comes, let it go through/Pain may come and it may linger/It may stay and then leave”. Of course, their reaction towards Jae Yeol having schizophrenia is a classic example of how people fail to understand mental illness and therefore fear it. It's great that while we can't pick our family members, we can pick our friends. For your question re writer Noh, for me it may be imperfect but she has done a good job for delivering a good message so I hope it will be happy ending. Plot. Available for All Mobile Devices. What about his privacy? !” Her father can’t recognize his own wife or kids, and Mom points out that he hasn’t even come over after she hit her own daughter. HS was willing to act like it was true because she fully understood what her mother was saying. It can’t be easy for Jae-yeol to divorce himself from someone who shares so many similarities with him that in essence, Kang-woo’s story is practically a recount of his own, and that Kang-woo is him. Poor Jae Yeol, I love him to pieces in this episode. cant wait for ep 15-16, definitely IOIL will be listed in my top 5 favorite drama all time! HS earned our annoyance in earlier eps, until she shows that she is the kind of girl who would stand by her man come hell or hi water. When you have a partner with an extreme disability, it's like being a single parent. But you still see Kang-woo.”, He asks Jae-yeol if something strikes false with that, and Jae-yeol nods. xfbml : true, // parse social plugins on this page A part of me understands where Hae Soo’s family is coming from in wanting Hae Soo to break up with Jae Yeol. She nods, but tells him to trust her: “Kang-woo’s a hallucination. Trust me… and let me out.”. but i was amazed finding when i saw the first glimpse of schizophrenic from JJY... Gong Hyo Jin and Jo In Sung are absolutely AMAZING. Look, we have so much here already to break our hearts: PTSD in everyone abused, trauma, mildly schizophrenic mother stayed with violent sociopath boyfriend, passively endured beatings because of it, then developed dissosiative disorder; eldest brother became a psychopath. This whole exchange had me bawling my eyes out. In fact I agree with you though not everyone can do that. With help and support from his loved ones and his own strong will and motivation, I believe that Jae Yeol will be able to manage his illness and live to see the future with Hae Soo. With regards to the psychology of this show, it’s definitely not perfect but here’s my take. }); It's the best I can see how to hope for. I hate the necessity, but I could fully accept that progression.